You know that IV-V-vi progression. The “sensitive chord sequence” that shows up in everything from Pachelbel’s Canon to half the pop songs on the radio. Sometimes it washes over you, pleasant but unremarkable. Other times - same exact chords, same voicing - it breaks you open.
What changed? Not the music. You did.
The Pattern and the Meaning Music theory can tell you why a vi chord feels melancholic - the minor third, the position in the scale, the tendency of certain intervals to create tension or resolution. But theory can’t tell you why this particular instance of that chord, right now, makes your throat tighten.
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